Last of Montana (for awhile)

I'm taking off for Alaska tomorrow, so needed to make sure Montana is complete.

Today was my Sister's 80th birthday party.

Kerri (daughter-in-law), Greg (son), My Sister - DIONE, Mark (son), Holli (daughter), Frank (son-in-law)

Here I am AGAIN, and Dione

Just had to add a few more cabin pictures:

Is this not the most beautiful willow tree you have ever seen?

and the most wonderful flower garden that I planted that provided the deer with a salad buffet?

Tracie and Thomas Freni with Jake at Mike's Cabin

She is the oldest daughter of my sister Glenda who passed in 2010.

And finally, a real Montana treasure:

 Look, you can stop for a cup of coffee or espresso, buy a gift of jewelry, agate if you wish, and a card to go with the gift, as well as night crawlers and flies.  (That would be for you fishermen in the group.)  Now that's what they call one stop shopping. 

Odds and Ends

I seem to have overlooked a few things from previous posts, starting with my nephew Greg Smith's 54th birthday on June 15th.


Greg and his Family

Son Isaac, Step-son Beau-holding Daisy, Wife Kerri, GREG, and son Rainer-holding George 



Cousin - Robin Cadby Sorenson -holding Kate

Nancy Day, Sam Studiner, ME, Karen Melius, Mary Jo MacIntyre

 These women have been my friends since the late 50's, early 60's, when we were all having our babies.  There are two missing - Jeannie Michael and Connie Studer who both passed in the last two years.

 Cabin (with deer in the yard) that was built by my father and grandfather in 1960.  It is now owned by my nieces and nephews.  It is 3 cabins down river from the one owned by my son Mike, where I am currently living.

 View of Mike's cabin from the backside. 

You just have to love this!!!!

Football field for the Absarokee Huskies High School Team.

PLEASE notice the cattle behind the stands.

Another very old, and very dear friend

Al  Littler







Here is My Current Neighborhood

Thought you might enjoy a quick look around - starting with my home town of Billings, Montana.  (As I've already said, the biggest city in Montana with a population of 150,000.)

Driving from Billings to the cabin takes me through the little towns of Laurel (Pop.6,814), Park City (Pop. 870), Columbus (Pop. 1,896), and Absarokee (Pop. 1,200).   

Montana's Big Sky through my windshield

Sites around the cabin:

Beehive Community Center

Local Resort

Friendliest of all Neighbors

Neighboring Community:

Nye Post Office that has VERY irregular hours.

It's a short 33 miles to the town or Red Lodge, Montana (Pop. 2,114), local ski resort and gateway to the Cooke City Highway which takes you to Silver Gate, Montana, one of the entrances to Yellowstone Park.  The scenery between Absarokee and Red Lodge is some of the most beautiful I've seen.

Red Lodge, Montana

Heading back to Billings from Red Lodge are a couple more small towns:  Roberts (Pop. 1,176) and Joliet (Pop. 593).  The Billings to cabin (about 60 miles) to Red Lodge (33 miles)  to Billings (about 60 miles) Triangle is pretty much my area of activity.  And a most enjoyable one at that.

Working on this blog in the Nye Bar - adjacent to the Nye Post Office.

Only place I have found that has WiFi with a place to actually sit down and plug in.

Two Meetings and a Funeral

Meeting Number One - with very old (since my high school days), very dear friends  Before we moved away from Billings Nancy and I were at the least on the phone every day, and we saw each other as couples almost every weekend.

Nancy and Ruben Day

Meeting Number Two - I attended a meeting of the Golden (over 55 years of age) K Kiwanis Cub as a guest of my sister.  Now this is my kind of meeting.  It opened with a rousing version of the song Montana  --

Montana, Montana glory of the west

Of all the states from coast to coast you're easily the best

Montana, Montana where skies are always blue

M - O - N - T - A - N - A, Montana I love you

followed by the pledge of allegiance, then a short prayer, then singing of God Bless America, then introductions of guests (That would be ME), then announcements, then safe driving tips, at the conclusion of which they all said in unison, "Safety on the highway depends on you and me.  Drive Defensively," then a guest speaker and all done!!!!

 

My 93-year-old uncle, Ralph Shirley, who I introduced you to in my blog of February 27th, died on

 June 4th. His funeral was yesterday, which means I have more relatives for you to meet.

Uncle Ning

 

His two Children (My Cousins) Suzie and Jack

Jack's children (Rose and Forrest) and grandchildren live in Hawaii and were unable to attend.

Suzie's Family

(Front) Suzie Zimmerman, Granddaughters Payton and Marin, Daughter Angie

Son-in-Law, Daughter Shawna, Husband Bill, Son-in-Law

(Sorry I don't know the names of the In-Laws.  I'll work on that one.)

Cousin Gary Dahl's Family

Son John, Gary, Wife Bonnie, Daughter Cheryl

He has another son and daughter who were not able to attend.

Welcome to MONTANA

Meet my Chauffer -

Kerri Smith (wife of my nephew Greg)

Kerri flew to Arizona to help me drive to Montana - except she ended up doing 90% of the driving.  It was certainly wonderful for me and great to have the company.  We drove from Arizona through Nevada, Utah, and Idaho ending in Montana.  (Again covering 5 states but this time it took 21 hours - as compared to the 5 states in the east that took only 2.5 hours.)

Montana's beautiful mountains to greet me!

Between Butte and Bozeman, Montana

Montana Family that I will be visiting while here

My sister Dione, her daughter Holli,  Holli's daughter Kira and her fiancee Luke.

 Back row is Holli's son Jeremy, son Cameron, and husband Frank.

Nephew Greg's sons - Rainer and Isaac (Parents not available at time of this picture.)

Yellowstone River, between Billings and Columbus, Montana

My son Mike's cabin - where I will be for the next 6 weeks.

 The cabin is about 15 miles from Absarokee, a town of about 1,200 people (and another 60 miles from Billings which is the biggest city in Montana - population 150,000)  In Absarokee there are no stop lights, one grocery store, one motel, one cafe, two churches and two bars.  At the cabin there is no television, no internet, and no cell phone reception, but there is a land line - 406-328-4969.
But this is my favoritist part of all - The Stillwater River that runs just feet from the back of the cabin:

 

Washington, D.C. and New York City with Pennsylvania in Between

I had the distinct honor of getting to see my granddaughter, TENAYA  MICHELLE  CAMPBELL, graduate from Georgetown University, Cum Laude, with a Bachelor of Arts in French.  (She plans to spend the summer in France and return to Los Angeles to start her job with a talent agency in the fall.)

Georgetown University was the first Catholic university in the United States.  It was started by John Carroll, a Jesuit Priest, in 1789.  The graduation ceremony took place in front of Healy Hall which is the flagship building for the University.  It was built in 1877 when Patrick F. Healy, SJ, (Society of Jesus) was president of the university.  He was the first African American to earn a Ph.D. and the first to head a major university. 

 

Healy Hall

The night before graduation was a "Senior Ball" held at Union Station for all the graduating seniors and their families.

 

(Brother) Jonah, Tenaya, (Mom) Diane, (Dad) Mike

While in Washington, D.C., we ate at Tenaya's favorite restaurants:  Il Canale (Italian), Bistrot Du Coin (French), and The Tombs (American) - where Tenaya will have her name permanently inscribed on a plaque of students graduating in 2013 who came to The Tombs each and every day for the 99 days preceding graduation.  Yea Tenaya!!!!

I was also able to take the night tour of the monuments which included Washington, Jefferson, Lincoln, FDR, MLK,  Iwo Jima, WWII, Korean War, and Vietnam plus the Capitol and the White House.  I think the most spectacular is World War II - especially at night.

Then it was on to Philadelphia.  I rode with the Mike Campbell family as we went from D.C. through Virginia, Maryland, and Delaware to Pennsylvania.  (That took about 2.5 hours.  We in the west think of going from state to state to take much more time than that, don't we?.)   Now it was time for getting acquainted with the school Jonah will be attending this fall - University of Pennsylvania (Penn), which was the first university in the United States, started by Benjamin Franklin in 1740.  Penn is in the Ivy League and Jonah will be a member of their baseball team.

I was met in Philly by my sister, Dione Smith, and her son Mark and his wife Chrysa.  I stayed with them in Doylestown, Pennsylvania on the way to and coming back from New York City.  Doylestown may have been the highlight of the trip for me.  The countryside is so lush, everything so green, big beautiful trees everywhere.  It is a very small town, population 8,380, but four very famous people have lived there:  Pearl Buck (1892-1973), Margaret Mead (1901-1978), Oscar Hammerstein (1895-1960), and James Mitchner (1907-1997).  Another interesting fact is that for the first time ever I saw a road sign which read:  Beware Aggressive Drivers.  What does one do with that kind of advice?

Home of Pearl Buck

Home of Margaret Mead

Mark Smith, (son) Dane, (wife) Chrysa

 From Doylestown I rode with the Smith family (from Pennsylvania through New Jersey) to New York City.  After checking into our Hotel ($300/night with a bathroom so small it fit only one person at a time) we met again with the Mike Campbells for dinner at Lattanzi Restaurant (Italian).   (I know this is a terrible picture but it proves that my iPhone 5 can do that scanning thing.  There are 4 Smiths, 4 Campbells and 1 friend of the Campbells in this picture.  What are the odds that we would all be in NYC at the same time?)

 Then it was on to Broadway for my sister and me, to see the "Book of Mormon."  It was delightful, beautiful music, wonderful dancing, clever story line, and very raunchy.  (A little too coarse for my taste.)  The next day Dione and I continued with the touristy things:  bus tour through streets of New York City, boat tour around the city, followed by a bicycle tour (someone else pushing the peddles) through Central Park.

9/11 Memorial at Ground Zero

Statue of Liberty on a foggy day

Fountain in Central Park

Dione and Me in Central Park

New Routine - Number 1

Keep in mind that for the past at least 15 years my general routine has been:  get out of bed about 6:00 a.m., be in the car on the way to work by 6:30 a.m., stop at McDonalds for an Egg McMuffin and a diet Coke, be at the office by no later than 7:30 a.m., do whatever it was I did at the office, get back home between 4:30 and 5:30 p.m., take a shower, watch TV, and be back in bed by 10:00 p.m.

Now that I have been in Arizona (off and on) for three and a half months the routine is much different.  Getting out of bed is somewhere between 7:00 and 8:00 a.m. - although this morning it was actually 6:30.

And then the look becomes this one        

 







so I can head to the ONE MILE LONG walking path

   across the street from Kori's house.  I am now going around the loop TWICE - which would be TWO MILES DAILY.

 

Then it's home for a shower and off to Jack-in-the-Box
for their Ultimate Breakfast Sandwich with NO bacon. 

 

 

 

Any time that it's possible - and there is something on TV about it - I'm watching the Jodi Arias trial.  They have finally proceeded past the Defense Presentations and are now on to the Prosecution's Rebuttal.  The past two days have been a young psychologist who has done an excellent job of testifying and is saying exactly what I have thought all along - Borderline Personality Disorder, not PTSD.

 

I continue to attend two groups at the Unity Church:  "The Work" by Byron Katie and "The Course in Miracles."  Both of them versions of cognitive therapy, one secular and the other spiritual.  I have also added attendance at Weight Watchers once a week.  Just started that so am not sure it will stick.

 

I will be here in Arizona until May 17th so this routine will hold until then.  As you have already determined I'm sure, the biggest change has been having to switch from McDonalds to Jack-in-the-Box.  Traumatic to be sure!

 

Every now and then there is a welcome interruption to this routine.  Today it was a meeting with a friend who goes back to the fifth grade at McKinley School in Billings, Montana.

 

Gayle Snyder